"I’m a third-generation victim of Agent Orange because my grandfather served on the battlefield during the war. I was born without a kneecap in either leg, and I can’t bend my knees. I didn't learn to walk until I was four years old. My childhood was spent in hospitals, undergoing surgeries and physical therapy. There were times when I thought my disability would determine the course of my entire life. But my mother kept telling me that I might not be able to choose how I was born, but I can choose how I live my life."
Phuong, with the unwavering support of her family, pursued a degree in Special Education at Hanoi Metropolitan University. After four years of study, she graduated and was offered a teaching position.
Today, Phuong teaches children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), helping young learners who face challenges with behavior, communication, and language development.
Phuong's lessons usually begin with basic physical activities like throwing a ball, jumping, and moving through an obstacle course. She carefully demonstrates each exercise, offering constant encouragement to her students.
During language development sessions, Phuong uses a variety of teaching aids, including picture cards, vocabulary flashcards, and interactive games, to help her students recognize and name objects and animals.
"My greatest joy comes from the students’ smallest milestones: when a student looks at me and smiles for the first time, calls me 'teacher,' or, after months of practice, finally says 'Mom' for the first time. Those moments give hope not only to me but also to the child's family. They’re the greatest reward for a special education teacher," she said.
In addition to teaching disadvantaged children, Phuong participates in blood donation campaigns and volunteer programs that bring love and support to children in remote mountain communities.
During her four years at university, Phuong served as Vice President of the Hanoi Students with Disabilities Club. In 2023, she was selected as a delegate to the "Shining Vietnamese Willpower" program, representing a new generation of young Vietnamese with disabilities who have overcome adversity to succeed in life.
Now Phuong is an active member of Starlight, a community group dedicated to supporting people with disabilities.
"If my story can help a child believe that they, too, can grow up, study, work, and make meaningful contributions to society, then every hardship I have endured will have been worthwhile. Today, I no longer see my disability as something I must overcome. I see it as a part of my life that has taught me empathy, perseverance, and how to live more responsibly for myself and society," said Phuong.
Phuong's journey of resilience and selfless dedication has inspired many people, particularly children with autism spectrum disorder and their families. Associate Professor Dr. Do Hong Cuong, President of Hanoi Metropolitan University, describes Phuong as a sunflower – strong, resilient, and always turning toward the light while dedicating her life to serving the community.
"We deeply admire Phuong for her determination and perseverance. Everything she has achieved is the result of years of tireless effort. We hope she will continue to play an important role in advancing special education and promoting inclusive education in our society," said Cuong.
Vu Thanh Nga, Director of the School Counseling and Early Intervention Center, said, "Phuong always gives positive energy to everyone around her. She is willing to collaborate, share her knowledge, keep learning, and continuously improve herself so that she can better support children with disabilities."
